It all boils down to EMOTIONAL SOBRIETY.
So I decided to "Toss My Hat Into The Ring"
What is it?
For me it is simple. Emotional Sobriety is being relatively (no we will never be perfect) happy, joyous and free.
Then I have to want this! And be willing to go to any length to achieve it.
For me it takes:
GRATITUDE.. If I can just focus on what I have to be grateful for, then I am NOT focusing on my problems and challenges. For me Gratitude is an action not merely a mind trip.
ACCEPTANCE.. Does not mean Approval. What is, IS. Period.
If I cannot accept what I am absolutely, totally unable to change, I will be out trying to change things I will never be able to change. This is a dead end road of frustration that takes me away from being relatively happy, joyous and free.
Actually using the 12 Steps of Recovery. Walk The Walk! Don't Just Talk The Talk.
Pause When Agitated. Practice Love and Tolerance of Others. Clean my side of the street. When wrong make amends. etc.
PRAYER and MEDITATION, working together, go a long way helping me find Gratitude and Acceptance.
Good luck on your journey.
An important facet of the gospel of Cap that has indeed been good news for me
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